This is The Public Speaker: Quick and Dirty Tips for Improving Your Communication Skills, with your host, Lisa B. Marshall.

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My husband was born and raised in Panama. Spanish, of course, is his first language. He came to the United States when he was in his 20s and has been living here ever since. He often says that he’s illiterate in two languages. Of course, he’s just kidding.

He does, however, have an interesting accent. His Panamanian family and friends say that now he speaks Spanish with an American accent. In fact, the last time we visited Panama, he was frequently mistaken for a foreigner. However, my friends and family, here in the U.S., all notice that he has a slight Hispanic accent when he speaks English.

Why am I telling you this? Because a listener who wanted to remain anonymous asked me how to get rid of her accent. So, instead, I shared my husband’s story. But the reality is EVERYONE has an accent.

What Is an Accent?

It’s impossible to not have an accent. I speak with a regional accent, a Philadelphia accent. And I also have a foreign accent. Cuando hablo en Español (when I speak in Spanish) I’m a “gringa,” because Spanish isn’t my first language.

The question is, does it matter?

That’s a tough question…one that I struggle with. Part of me knows that accents are a natural part of spoken language; part of my identity.   However, I also know from the research (and personal experience) that accents affect people’s perceptions. Based on accent, people make judgments about competence, attractiveness, and personality (Fuertes, Porter, & Ramirez, 2002). Turns out that depending on the listener, certain accents are more appealing than others, and we base impressions on that.

In my experience, people have strong feelings when it comes to accents. Some people like my Philadelphia accent, while others don’t. One listener even wrote to ask, “Why haven’t you learned to speak with a standard American accent?” (That’s the Midwestern hybrid accent that most national newscasters use.) But I know, even if I did learn that, some listeners from other countries still wouldn’t like my American accent! (Then what, learn a commonly liked accent, a British accent, like Madonna?)

Does Your Accent Cause Trouble?

Ultimately, each person needs to decide if an accent is interfering with communication. Is it significantly impacting job performance? Your advancement? Are you avoiding conversations in your everyday life? Only you know the extent of the problem. If people ask you to repeat yourself so often that you’re frustrated or people focus more on your accent than they do on what you’re saying, then yes, it becomes important to learn how to communicate more clearly.

However, be warned: Changing an accent, especially when you’re an adult, is hard work. It takes dedication and lots of practice. Experts suggest 30-45 minutes of daily practice; that’s 30 to 40 minutes a day for at least six months to hear a difference in natural conversation. It’s not easy to do, but it is possible.

Some people refer to this as “accent modification” or “accent reduction.” I like to think of it as accent acquisition; you’re learning a new accent, as an actor (or as my husband did).

So what are some of the things you can do?

Hire a Professional

If you have the funds, consider hiring a professional. After all, the fastest way to improve at anything is with a trained coach by your side. Our native language has a strong influence on the sounds that we as adults can differentiate. English may contain sounds that don’t exist in your language, making it difficult for you to hear them.

For example, German doesn’t have the sound /w/ as in /w/ater or /w/ant. A German speaker may ask, “Do you vant some vater?” So, it helps to have someone with a speech pathology background to explain exactly what to do with your mouth, tongue, and air to produce unfamiliar sounds. Some recent research shows success with software programs that graphically demonstrate vocalized sounds. The speaker then learns to produce sounds by vocally creating matching images.

Ideally, you’ll want a speech pathology professional who has experience teaching English as a Second Language. Maybe you could find someone who also has access to the software I mentioned. You might look for someone who’s certified in the Compton P-ESL method, which has been shown to be an effective way to help non-native speakers with their pronunciation. In all cases a professional can help identify your specific problem areas and develop exercises to help you improve. But be prepared to pay; it’s not cheap.

So what else can you do?

Recruit Help

Be sure to tell other people that you want help. But you’ll need to be specific. If you are working on slowing down, then tell your conversation partner to signal you when you are speaking too fast. Or if you forget articles, like “the” and “a,” then ask him or her to correct you when you miss one.

Focus on a single mistake.   Most importantly permit others to help you. Some people will feel that making corrections is rude, so you’ll need to remind them it’s not what they say, but how they say it! Tell them exactly what you want them to do.

Consider joining a Toastmasters club; they’ll have a grammarian who certainly could help. Join your local Literacy Volunteers organization. Find a conversation partner program, or a language exchange buddy, either online or in person. These are programs designed for non-native speakers to practice with native speakers one on one or in small groups. With your conversation partner you could make mini-presentations, you could role play situations you find difficult, or you could just practice conversation. Again, the most important thing is to focus on one achievable goal per conversation.

Listen and Repeat Aloud

For practice after your sessions, ask your conversation partner to give you a list of 5-10 words that you had difficulty with. Have another native speaker record them for you. Then listen and repeat. I frequently do this for my clients to help them with specific words in very important presentations. This works great for short-term improvement and sometimes helps in the long term.

I also suggest buying one of those electronic dictionaries with sound. You can look up a word and then listen to the pronunciation. You can hear the correct pronunciation of a word whenever you want, without having to ask someone else.   We have several of these in our house. In fact, this past Halloween, I didn’t know how to pronounce the word “bat” in Spanish. I pressed the repeat button on the machine so many times that now when I say the word, I sound like the machine. My family laughs every time I say, “Murcielago.”

I also suggest listening to audio and reading at the same time. The Quick and Dirty Tips podcasts are great for this, because they are short, they’re free, and they include the audio and the text. After you are done listening to one paragraph, you should try to recite and record the same paragraph yourself. (You can use free audio recording software like GarageBand or Audacity.) You’ll be amazed at how much you can improve simply by listening to yourself and comparing directly to a native speaker. You’d better be careful, though, if you use my podcasts; you’re likely to pick up my Philadelphia accent! Of course, you can do the same thing with audiobooks, if you buy the hardcopy too. Oh and even if you don’t record, just the act of reading aloud will help strengthen your mouth muscles, which is important for proper pronunciation.

So if you are considering changing your accent, the most important tip I can share is to be patient. Don’t expect instant results and give up. You can change the way you sound if you want to. In the resource section of the show notes I’m including a link to several great resources, including free pronunciation software, to help you get started. Check them out and let us know what happens.

This is Lisa B. Marshall. Passionate about communication; your success is my business.

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